Emily Jacob is a kinky rape survivor. Through her business ReConnected Life she supports other rape survivors to be empowered in their healing journey through her support community, one to one coaching and guided self-help programmes. She has never shied away from talking about rape myths, featuring in the press, TV, and documentary film. ‘Desperately Hopeful: the DisConnected Years of a ReConnected Life’, ‘To Report Or Not To Report: Survivor Testimony of the (In)Justice System’ and ‘Uncaged: The Rise of the Badass’ are her print contributions to date. She has personal lived experience of rape, of consensual non-consent, of total power exchange, and she knows the difference between all. For more information, https://reconnected.life