John Brownstone hates writing about himself but thankfully he’s married to his submissive babygirl, Kayla Lords, who he tasked with doing it for him (and she consented). While he’s often known as Southern Sir in the kink community and online, you can call him John. He blogs infrequently over at SouthernSirsPlace.com and podcasts weekly for Loving BDSM and (coming soon) Masturbation Monday. When he’s not helping to make the Loving BDSM community great, creating new content for the projects he works on with Kayla, or helping new kinksters navigate the world of BDSM, he’s in his workshop making wooden paddles, Delrin canes with beautiful hand-turned wood handles, and plenty of other non-kinky items. He doesn’t necessarily consider himself a writer or podcaster but finds himself in new and unusual places (like speaking at Eroticon) because at some point Kayla has said, “I have an idea…” Coffee is his love language, and being ridiculously adorable with Kayla Lords is one of his superpowers. And also, when this was read to him, he laughed and said, “It’s not how I might have described myself but it’s all true.”